Monday Memories

So it seems, Gene, Lauren and EverSoLightly have all long quit their WIDLM (sheesh wheres the dedication?) I’ve decided this week I’m going to do a “What I remember Monday” Just random memories that have recently popped into my head, no order, no rhyme or reason…just things I’ve experienced in my 24 short years of life. :)

  • I remember my 5th Birthday party. We had Oscar Meyer Cheddar dogs, and I got stuffed 101 Dalmatians
  • I remember eating Apple Jacks with my brother, dry, because he ran out of milk.
  • I remember an old friend, Kurt, eating moldy yogurt and him asking me if my yogurt had webs in it.
  • I remember my child hood best friend Jeff’s mom teaching me how to ride a bike without training wheels.
  • I remember holding in my tears when my dad casually told me he had to put his dog, Pooh, down….6 months before telling me he did so.
  • I remember losing almost all my friends in high school because one girl decided she didn’t like me anymore.
  • I remember watching the Goonies with my brother, in his very small…old apartment in Monmouth, Oregon.
  • I remember sitting in Taco Bell waiting for my sister to take me home, eating Pintos & cheese, and their mexi fries (those were the best tater tots ever, too bad they changed them!)
  • I remember watching Rugrats every week, faithfully, and my mom hated it.
  • I remember having “Hide-a-bed Fridays” with my mom eating pringles and watching our favorite TGIF shows!
  • I remember watching Jumanji in theaters and NOT having a nightmare over it.
  • I remember not being able to participate in my 8th birthday party at SuperPlay because I had stitches in my lip and they didn’t want to “risk” it. They allowed me to do the chicken dance. Somewhere. here. I have a photo of it. Here’s another.
  • I remember getting my SNES for my birthday that same year. The Lion King game was (and still is) the death of me!
  • I remember driving around in my mom’s honda blasting backstreet boys with all the windows rolled down with my friends Alisha, Tiffany and Sadie.
  • I remember right before my 13th birthday my dad stopped by our house to give me my bday present (a basketball hoop) and telling me I looked like a pregnant woman. here is a photo from when I was 13.
  • I remember watching the first episode of Smallville with my friend Sarah, and being terrified.
  • I remember the day my niece was born in California, and she was the first new born baby I’d ever seen. I thought she was wrinkly and ugly. I look back now and laugh at my pre-teen self. She was stinkin adorable.
  • I remember faking poor eye sight so I wouldn’t have to sit in the back of the class in 3rd grade…by 6th grade I had to wear glasses full time :(
  • I can remember conversations I’ve had with my mom over the past 24 1/2 years. I remember her talk about Santa, I remember her teaching me about how the spot of “water” that I see in front of us on hot days, isn’t really water. I was 6 when she told me that. We were driving home from my Aunt Lori’s house.
  • I remember going over to Aunt Lori’s just so she could braid my hair and I could play with her kitty.
  • I remember my brother getting Lucky Charms for Christmas.
  • I remember one of the years that the Salvation Army provided my mom’s and my Christmas presents. To this day, that was one of the most memorable holidays ever.
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This is what life is like when your car is buried in a little over 2 feet of snow…

EDIT this was typed up and supposed to be posted last Thursday.

1) I haven’t worked since last Friday
2) LWSD had one half day of school this week
3) One can only live off of soup and sandwiches for so long
4) A week with a late full circle delivery (due to weather) is a sad week. LACKING in fruit.
5) I’m glad my mom left me with kiwi, too bad we ate most of it
6) I miss work
7) I love the snow, and the peace and quiet it brings
8) Waking up at 6am every day waiting to see if you need to drive into work and then finding out you could have slept in = no fun
9) I’m glad I’ve had the week off so my nasty cut on my face can heal a little more (though it still hurts!)
10) I’m starting to get irritated at the people who laugh at us Seattle folk not being able to drive in the snow, when in fact, we have 2 feet (some places even more) of snow & ice. A foot and a half of snow, 3 inches of ice, followed by another half a foot of snow and then ICE on top of that!.
11) Getting texts and phone calls from loved ones saying they’ve been out of power for over 24 hours is heartbreaking, especially those with kiddos.
12) the reports of this being the worst snow storm (linked below) seattle has seen since 1995 is bogus. Winter of 2008 we had so much snow and ice, we were snowed in from just after thanksgiving (December 8th) until Christmas Day. THAT was awful. Power outages forever. Lack of gas, food, and other goods. I was just lucky I lived in a house with a generator and gas fireplace!
13) I’m very grateful for everything I have and everyone IN my life!
14) I cherish this time with Kitten.
15) Mitchell and I have played a lot of UNO, and being home all day every day since Monday makes me miss my family. They left Monday morning and I have missed them like CRAZY!

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WIDLM

Today I don’t like Goodbyes and the tears and sadness they bring, melting snow, and really bad wounds on my face.

I hope you all just loved reading this vague detail free WIDLM post. <3

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theREALchef 3

Tonight I made Homemade Chili. This recipe didn’t come from any website, I did call my mom for some advice, but thats about it, so I’m REALLY truly proud of this one, and am happy to share it with all of you! Maybe next time I’ll snap a better photo!

Home Cooked Chili

(photo taken with my cell phone, sorry!) 

Ingredients:

1lb (or more depending) ground beef
2 Cans of Dark Red Kidney Beans
1/2 cup diced onion
1 can of tomato sauce, not tomato paste
1 can steamed diced tomatoes
Chili Powder

In a skillet, cook onion & brown the beef, drain.
In a large pot, mix the full cans of kidney beans (juices and all), diced tomatos, tomato paste and cooked beef & onion. Cook on Medium (or low depending when you’re planning on eating) add chili powder to taste! This is a HUGE hit here, and at work, everyone LOVES it! Bonus, it’s easy!

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help?

This past weekend EverSoLightly  and I decided for some crazy reason to weigh ourselves and see where we were at. To both of our horror, we’ve realized that we’ve put on a bit of weight. I, weigh the most I’ve ever weighed in my 24 years of life. For anyone that knows me, I’m small. I’m 4’11″ and until I hit 18 I weighed 98 pounds at most. When I was 19 I met my friend, Nadia. Nadia’s mom knows how to cook. She cooks some of the most amazing dishes I have ever had. Introducing me to all sorts of new foods and dishes, meant that I had re-developed my love for food. Here I am several years later, and my appetite has grown. Craving Indian food, Chinese food, and of course, the good old all American standby, burgers and fries. Last night after eating a DELICIOUS burger from Five Guys, Burgers and Fries in the Overlake/Crossroads area I decided I could not risk gaining anymore weight. As of right now you can’t really tell that I weigh 122lbs, for the most part I look the same, but I don’t feel the same. One of EverSoLightly’s bigest complaints was that we weren’t as active this summer as we usually are. We couldn’t really figure out why, but now I realize its clearly our diet. We get delivery from Full Circle every week, we, for the most part eat everything that comes with our delivery, especially now that we’ve cut back in size. Starting today, I’ve decided we’re going to cut back on snacking, cut back on boxed or frozen goods, and only eat fresh. I’m going to take a jog every morning now, and if I cant squeeze it in before work, it’ll happen during lunch every day. We’ve discovered these really good drinks, called Neuro. We found them at a cute little local market called “Your local market.” They sell them at a few other stores in our area, including Safeway, QFC and a few others. I’m really bad at taking vitamins, and I live in Seattle so Vitamin D is a rare thing out here. These drinks help me get those valuable vitamins in AND they’re delicious. I’ve added them into my daily routine (one a day, on some occasions, two haha!) I’m going to be eating one salad a day (lunch) and sometimes for dinner too. I’ve come up with a menu for some “Splurge” meals (all dinners) that will help make this seem less…dull :)

January:
5th: Curry Chicken
11th: Chili & Corn Bread
12th: Creamy Chicken Pockets
18th: Chicken Noodle Soup
19th: Beef Stew & biscuits (or something)

February:
2nd: Chicken with Apricot sauce
8th: Mac & cheese
9th: BBQ Beef Casserole
15th: Hash brown Casserole
16th: Cheesy Chicken Enchiladas
23rd: Chinese Sundays

So now I want YOUR help. Anyone have any delicious and very HEALTHY meals I can make in between those not-so healthy fun meals? I could use some new ideas! Also, don’t worry, I’ll try and share some of those recipes!

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Goodbye 2011, Hello 2012! (Replacing WIDLM this week)

I had this somewhat great idea to jump on the bandwagon with resolutions for the new year. Of course, I have NEVER attempted this, and know the majority of the world doesn’t even keep up with their resolutions after February but I’m going to give it a shot. (EverSoLightly thinks that since I accidentally typed “Goodbye 2011 Hello 2010!”)

It’s taken me a few days to come up with the right list of things that I truly wanted to accomplish this year, and for years to come. I think with some people they go about the whole “new years resolutions” idea a bit strange. “hmm let me make up a list of things I want to get done this year” instead of “Lets start fresh this year and make up a GOOD list of things I want to better/accomplish in my life not just for one year, but for years to come!”

This list is more for myself than anyone else, but I need to put it down somewhere where I wont lose it, and will be motivated to keep up with it for years to come.

  • Re-kindle old friendships I let slip away. Go back and get in touch with those I may have hurt or that have hurt me and try and start fresh.
  • Walk/jog/run often, whether alone or with Mitchell.
  • Purge the bad out of my life, whether it’s clutter, bad eating habits, or anything in between, it’s going to be kicked to the curb.
  • Enjoy an electronic/tv/distraction free 30 minutes a day, sit down with a cup of tea and just relax, enjoy life :)
  • Keep in touch with all my friends, via snail-mail.
  • Cut out the bad, dramatic and hurtful.
  • Spend the holidays with people who love and care for not just me but Mitchell as well. No more christmases with passive aggressive comments, hateful actions and overall everything I’ve experienced over the past few years.
  • Ignore the above if I have to be around people like that
  • Become less of a work-a-holic, work stays at work, home life = work free.
  • add to this list often, especially as I’m checking things off :)
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WIDLM: Christmas.

(PLEASE NOTE THIS WAS TYPED UP AND I WAS GOING TO POST IT ON MONDAY THE 26TH OF DECEMBER, BUT FORGOT)

Dear Christmas,
What happened to you? Where did everything fall apart? When did everyone become so selfish? At what point did it go from the spirit of the season, love, caring for one another and the season of giving to being selfish, full of hate, and about hurting everyone else? When did it become acceptable for a 26 year old to open someone else’s gift because she “didn’t have one” under the tree? When was it acceptable to treat others as if they aren’t important and they don’t exist? Why is it we allow people to act so selfish and baby them? This year you weren’t as bad as the previous 3 years, but 4 Christmases in a row ruined by other’s selfishness and spite makes me want to curl up in a hole and hide from you next year. Spending your once joyous holiday alone would be better than spending it where you’re unwanted.

Christmas should be about giving gifts, helping others, spreading joy and love and not forgetting the true meaning of Christmas. Even for people who don’t believe in the TRUE meaning behind Christmas, I think they’d agree that you shouldn’t spend it stressing, being belittled and yelled at for spending time with others.

I’m 24 years old, EverSoLightly is 22, we can both go spend any time we want with my family and know that we’ll be welcome and made feel at home. I know that my family never has and never will hold a grudge against him or myself if we didn’t (and this has happened) go to Oregon for Christmas. So why is it that others can’t be this caring. My mom would be a little heartbroken, but would accept the decision if Mitchell and I opted (and I repeat, we HAVE) to not spend a single holiday with my family. So why can’t others be as caring?

This whole “well you weren’t here for the first 6 hours of the holiday so we’re going to treat you like dirt” act, as well as pretending I don’t exist, and saying hurtful things behind my back and in front of me as if I’m some nasty disease is very hurtful. These people refuse to welcome even their own flesh and blood into their house without making it obvious that the one not related to them is not welcome.

I’m tired of tip-toe-ing around and quietly letting them hurt me and EverSoLightly. I’ve spent years trying to ignore the hurtful comments, the drama, and the hate. It stops here. I would expect behavior from children, but not grown adults. EverSoLightly‘s father is all talk about how he doesn’t want his family to be divided and how people need to call him out when he’s being a jerk, or rude. Yet when the time comes, he’s doing everything OPPOSITE of what he says. Creating divides in his family by making some feel welcome and others un-welcome. I suppose this new “Katie doesn’t exist” theory is better than the “lets tell her everything we don’t like about her” at least now I don’t hit his anger radar.

When I show up to a holiday, whispering in my ear “You stole our son” is not going to help your family festivities go without a hitch, I am going to call you out on it, and I did. So what happens in return? “You aren’t welcome to come to dinner, because our 26 year old daughter’s boyfriend of 6 months wasn’t invited, and even though you and EverSoLightly have been together for almost 4 years you aren’t and never will be family to us.” No, those EXACT words weren’t said, but they were implied.

How is it, that one family can be full of such hate, anger, and be so immature? If it weren’t for Mitchell’s Grandparents, and little sister, I would have considered Christmas 2011 another flop. Kudos to EverSoLightly‘s younger sister, because even if she faked everything and truly doesn’t like me, she managed to put her poker face on and treat me like a living breathing human, instead of a monster. If EverSoLightly‘s grandparent’s hadn’t been there, I’d have ended the night in tears (again) on the phone at 2am to my mom bawling because I don’t understand how people can be so nasty (that was last christmas.)

I took the high road this year, ignored the snide comments. Accepted being cropped out of photos, and not invited to “be a part of the family” So what if EverSoLightly‘s older sister’s boyfriend was included in activities and photos, I didn’t say or do anything to put up a fight. So I think if you look at it from the point of view of his family I’d say this Christmas went without any major issues. Now to figure out what EverSoLightly and I want to do for next Christmas…maybe a trip to New Zealand will be a requirement to avoid the hurt.

On a not so WIDLM side note, I got the cutest purse wallet and shoes from EverSoLightly‘s mom! (Much better than the free samples I got two years ago, or the free samples I got this year from his older sister…I guess its the thought that counts? haha)

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Wordless Wednesday

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WIDLM: Common Cold

ANYONE can get a cold. Anyone can have the common cold. Everyone has to go on with their day to day lives with a common cold. I have to go to work with a sore throat, strange cough, congestion and a terrible headache. I wish for just once I could get a real illness – I’d like to say “oh yeah I have a haunted leg” :p

Haunted Leg

 

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WIDLM – Today

Today I don’t like just about everything that deals with TODAY. Not Monday in general, but TODAY. Thats all.

 

oh and new header! :D

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